She said even before Oger asked her to talk to me she was going to.
So that's okay then.
kittyCat wasn't quite right when she said I was in an "open" relationship... because when it's actually defined, I don't think that's going to be part of it. I'm a jealous wench, and I don't like to share, and all that.
But right now, since nobody has a freaking clue what's going on, I can't really say anything to anybody about it since I don't know what to call it.